What does God say about Abuse?
Hello! I just want to let you know that you do not have to ever let someone abuse you. It might be hard to get out of that situation but get some help. Go to a shelter, a friends home but by all means get yourself out of that situation.
Scripture is full of passages condemning abuse, confronting the abuser, and comforting the afflicted. God’s word reveals the truth that abuse has no place in the Kingdom of God.
The Lord examines both the righteous and the wicked. He hates everyone who loves violence.
Psalms 11: 5, NIV
“â¦and I hate a man’s covering himself with violence as well as with his garment” says the Lord Almighty.
Malachi 2: 16, NIV
You hear, O Lord, the desire of the afflicted; you encourage them and you listen to their cry, the fatherless and the oppressed, in order that man, who is of the earth, may terrify no more.
Psalm 10: 17-18, NIV
He who brings trouble on his family will inherit only wind, And the fool will be a servant to the wise. The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and he who wins souls is wise.
Proverbs 11: 29-30, NIV
It is not enemies who taunt me â I could bear that; It is not adversaries who deal insolently with me â I could hide from them. But it is you, my equal, my companion, my familiar friend, With Who I kept pleasant company; We walked in the house of God with the throngâ¦ My companion laid hands on a friend and violated a covenant with me With speech smoother than butter, but with a heart set on war; With words that were softer than oil, but in fact were drawn swords.
Psalms 55: 12-14, 20-21, NIV
Husbands, love your wives, and never treat them harshly.
Colossians 3: 19, NIV
You have heard that it was said to those of ancient times, “You shall not murder,” and “Whoever murders shall be liable to judgment.” But I say to you that if you are angry with a brother or sister, you will be liable of judgment; and if you insult a brother or sister, you will be liable to the council; and if you say, “You fool” you will be liable to the hell of fire.
Matthew 5: 21-23, NIV
I am quite sure that there are many more in the Bible that deal with how we treat people and hurting them is not godly. You do not everâ¦and I mean ever have to allow someone to hurt you. If they hit you once then be sure that something will set them off again at some point and they will hurt you again. They hitâ¦they apologizeâ¦the hitâ¦they apologize. Some though never apologize but in their minds they tell themselves you are their property and they can do whatever they want. The only thing is that the God of creation does not feel that way. God doesn’t want us to be beat up and “take it”. You should not have to live in fear. That is not what marriage is about. Marriage should be two people loving each other and becoming one! Stay safe and get help whenever needed.