What Does it Really Mean to Have a Personal Relationship with Jesus?

“What does it really mean to have a personal relationship with God?”

Many people over the years have wondered this exact question.  Is it difficult to have a personal relationship with God? No! But it does take something on your part. Having a individual personal relationship with God begins the split second we realize our need for Him, admit we are sinners, and in faith receive Jesus Christ as Savior. God, our heavenly Father, has always desired to be close to us, to have a relationship with us. Before Adam sinned in the Garden of Eden (Genesis chapter 3), both he and Eve knew God on an intimate, personal level. They walked with Him in the garden and talked directly to Him. Due to the sin of man, we became separated and disconnected from God. That direct personal relationship was broken because of sin, but when we become a Christian by believing in Christ and asking Him into our heart and life we open the door for that intimate relationship.  But…many only open the door but never truly ask Jesus to live in their heart and life and they know of Jesus…but they don’t know Him personally and that is a dangerous place to be.  For only those that have a true relationship with Him get the benefits of such a relationship.

What many people do not know, realize, or care about, is that Jesus gave us the most amazing gift-the opportunity to spend eternity with God if we trust in Him. “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 6:23). God became a human being in the Person of Jesus Christ to take on our sin, be killed, and then be raised to life again, proving His victory over sin and death. “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1). If we accept this gift, we have become acceptable to God and can have a relationship with Him, but that doesn’t mean we take advantage of that great and awesome gift.  We know many people in our life and we know a lot about a lot of people but that doesn’t mean we have a personal relationship with them.  I can know hundreds of things about someone but yet not know them intimately.  It is that personal relationship with the Lord that connects us to Him. Church doesn’t do it, reading the Bible doesn’t do it, being a good person doesn’t do it.  You must have a personal relationship with Jesus if you want the benefits of it.

Having a personal relationship with God means we should include God in our daily lives. We should pray to Him, read His word, and meditate on verses in an effort to get to know Him better. We should pray for wisdom (James 1:5), which is the most valuable asset we could ever have. We should take our requests to Him, asking in Jesus’ name (John 15:16). Jesus is the one who loves us enough to give His life for us (Romans 5:8), and He is the one who bridged the gap between us and God. You see millions of people know of Jesus.  Many have read the Bible and go to church but that is where their relationship with Jesus ends for many. 

The Holy Spirit has been given to us as our Counselor. “If you love me, you will obey what I command. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever-the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you” John 14:15-17. Jesus said this before He died, and after He died, the Holy Spirit became available to all who earnestly seek to receive Him. He is the one who lives in the hearts of believers and never leaves. He counsels us, teaches us truths, and changes our hearts. Without this divine Holy Spirit, we would not have the ability to fight against evil and temptations. But since we do have Him, we begin to produce the fruit that comes from allowing the Spirit to control us: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23).

This personal connection with God is not as hard to find as we might think, and there is no strange formula for getting it. As soon as we become children of God, we receive the Holy Spirit, who will begin to work on our hearts. We should pray without ceasing, read the Bible, and join a Bible-believing church; all these things will help us to grow spiritually. Trusting in God to get us through each day and believing that He is our sustainer is the way to have a relationship with Him. Although we may not see changes immediately, we will begin to see them over time, and all the truths will become clear.


In this world we will have many tribulations.  God said it!  Do you want to go them alone or have Jesus walk through them with you?  It is much easier to face this world when Jesus is our Lord and we know Him intimately. That doesn’t mean you won’t have problems, persecutions, trials, tests, and  tribulations because as long as we are alive and He has not yet returned we will have some.  The great thing about it is that Jesus will walk right along side of us during them.  He doesn’t always fix a situation, but He can always use the situation for His glory and to help us learn something.  Trust Him for He loves you and died for you.  It really is time for us to have a personal relationship with Him now.



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